Cultural etiquette to know before visiting Kenya
Kenya is welcoming, vibrant, and socially diverse – a mix of ethnic groups, languages, traditions, and faiths. Most locals are used to visitors and open to questions, but understanding a few social cues makes a big difference. You don’t need to speak Swahili or study tribal history, but a little respect and curiosity will earn you better conversations, smoother travel, and fewer awkward moments. These Kenya travel tips will help you get it right.
Dress: modest, tidy, and appropriate
Kenyans tend to dress smartly, even when things are casual. You’ll see people wearing suits in Nairobi heat and pressed shirts in rural towns. Tourists stand out – but how you dress still matters.
- In cities like Nairobi and Kisumu, casual wear is fine, but avoid looking scruffy.
- In rural areas, religious sites, or when visiting homes, cover your shoulders and knees.
- At the coast, beachwear is fine on the sand, but cover up in towns or shops.
- Topless sunbathing is frowned upon, even at tourist beaches.
When in doubt, go for light, breathable clothes that show respect for local norms.
Greetings and social behavior: respectful and polite
Kenyans value greetings – they’re a daily ritual, not just a formality. A handshake (right hand only) and a “Habari” or “How are you?” go a long way. Skipping a greeting in a shop, guesthouse, or market is considered rude.
- Take a moment to exchange pleasantries – especially with elders or authority figures.
- In rural areas, formal titles matter. Use “Mzee” for older men or “Mama” for older women.
- Don’t rush conversations – small talk builds trust.
- Avoid overly familiar gestures like back-patting or hugging strangers.
People may be reserved at first, but open up quickly with courtesy and genuine interest.
Public behavior: calm, courteous, and aware
Kenyans are generally polite in public, and loud, brash behavior isn’t the norm. You’ll notice that people don’t raise their voices, even when disagreeing. Public displays of affection are uncommon, especially in rural or conservative areas.
- Keep your tone calm in public – shouting attracts attention for the wrong reasons.
- Be discreet with romantic gestures, especially outside big cities.
- Always ask before photographing people, especially in markets or rural communities.
- Don’t litter – Kenyans are proud of clean public spaces, especially in national parks.
In some Indigenous or pastoralist communities (like the Maasai or Samburu), customs may differ – ask before entering a homestead or taking photos.
Food customs: shared and informal
Kenyan food is often simple but hearty – think stewed meat, greens, and staples like ugali (cornmeal). Eating is a social activity, and guests are usually encouraged to join.
- Wash your hands before and after meals – sinks or washbasins are often provided.
- If food is shared communally, eat with your right hand – the left is considered unclean.
- If offered food or drink, it’s polite to at least try a little – declining can be seen as rude.
- Don’t expect fast service – meals are unrushed and meant to be enjoyed.
In towns and cities, you’ll find everything from nyama choma (roast meat) joints to Indian and Ethiopian restaurants – just follow the locals.
Religion and local customs
Kenya is religious, mostly Christian and Muslim, with deep traditions tied to both faith and community. Even if you’re not religious, showing respect matters.
- Dress modestly in churches or mosques – long trousers or skirts, covered shoulders.
- Don’t take photos during religious services or in sacred spaces without permission.
- Respect prayer times, especially in Muslim-majority areas like the coast and northeastern Kenya.
Traditional beliefs also hold weight in many communities, especially around sacred trees, gravesites, or initiation rituals. If in doubt, ask.
Tipping and small gestures
Tipping in Kenya isn’t mandatory, but it’s appreciated – and in many service jobs, expected.
- In restaurants, 10% is standard if service isn’t included.
- For guides, drivers, or porters, $2-5 per day is a good base.
- Tip fuel station attendants (especially if they clean your windscreen or check tire pressure).
- Hotel and lodge staff often rely on pooled tips – check house rules before handing out cash directly.
A simple “Asante” (thank you) goes a long way – or try “Asante sana” for a bit more warmth. Showing effort, even in small ways, earns you big respect across Kenya.